Hello,
My 4 year old boy just started school (kinder 4) in March.
He assisted a nursery since he was 2 1/2 years old and we never received any feedback from teachers about any aggressive behavior towards other kids. We never received any behavior note from the teachers in that period.
I'm 28 weeks pregnant now, it will be our second child, and I have received already 3 notes from the teacher about my son throwing sand to other kids faces, pushing, and even hitting classmates with sand toys (a shovel).
We are very alarmed as we never saw that behavior on him. He doesnt want to stay in school when I take him, if my husband takes him he doesnt make a fuss and stays without crying.
Could this be a reaction to my pregnancy? How should I handle it? Should I discipline him again after reading the note from the teacher with him? I usually read the note out with him and I ask him to explain me what happen, the last time he told me he throw sand to his classmates because he didnt want them to come into the playhouse at the playground, and then when one girl did come in, he hit her in the face with a plastic shovel. I read the note with him and then took a toy away and explain that everytime he hit other kids or throws sand I will take a toy away. Is this a good idea?
His dad came back from work and I explained what happened, and he told my son that he was upset for what he had done and that he didnt want to speak with him. My son was very upset because his father ignore him due to the bad behavior.. is this a good strategy?
We wil appreciate your help. We know that things probably get worse when the baby sister comes in June.
Thanks
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