my son is 4 yrs old and we believe he has adhd. recently, under 2 months, he has started stealing, just little things from our rooms, a piece of candy or a cool tool (his dad's a mechanic)or anything along those lines. we started a reward program that if he was good he'd get stickers on his calender. he'd pick them out of the book and put them on himself. we have 3 different sizes so depending on his behavior he'd get the appropriate size, if any at all. he saw a camera he wanted to but in the store so he was working up to get the camera. i figured as long as he had 5 or 6 days of stickers that it would be ok, but if he didnt get them 2 days in a row then he would have to start over. it worked for about a week and a half because he is really excited to get his camera but then the other day he did it again, but not like he normally did it, he had taken at least 4-5 things between the kitchen, our bedroom, and my mother-in-laws room. then yesterday we were at acme and he wanted a pack of gum, which he knows he's not allowed to have, but after asking me and me saying no, he took it. i didnt know about it until 830 last night when i was checking his bed and getting him in his bed. there were 2 pieces missing. i was so upset i started crying when i got into my room, i don't know what to do. i think he is too young to understand sitting in a police cell. and i'd make him go to acme and pay for it but there are pieces missing and i work there and don't want to get myself in trouble at work either. i don't know what to do to get it throught his head this is bad, i've tried explaining it, i've tried showing him it hurts people when you take things. i've tried taking his things. nothing works. is this normal?i understand there are stages with kids but i think this is to extremes. please help, any ideas, anyone?? thank you!