4 yr old out of control

Help me. My 4 ye old daughter is horrible. Breaks things on purpose.  Destroys our home. Never listens. I cry everyday. Nothing I do will work.

[Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D.]

With so little information it is impossible to offer you guidance. What is the home environment like? Has she experienced upset in the home. Generally when young children act in a disorganized and aggressive fashion, it is becaues they are not experiencing the stability they require in their environment. In such instances it is the environment (including the parents0 who have to change, and to the extent that this occurs the child will improve. But there can be other reasons a child acts in a disorganized and aggressive fashion.