I am a divorced father of a 5 year old boy who is very well behaved most of the time except on occasions where he doesn't get his way. This happens about twice a month when I pick him up from his mothers for my visitation. He will melt down and start whimpering, stop listening and if I try to put his seatbelt on he will fight me, punching, kicking, say he doesn't like me etc.He has done this with his grandfather, grandmother, and at school. His mother has put off even talking to me about this problem and says it's just me, when I know it is not the case. This has been going on for about two years.
This tends to happen when he is overly tired. When I talk to him about this later he is remorseful and sad by how he has acted. I don't know what to do or how I can manage these situation. If anyone has any ideas I would appreciate it. Thank you.