My oldest son just turned 5 in March, and every day is such a struggle with him. I just want to rip my hair out! My husband and i are constantly having to scold him about something...tearing things up, sneaking out of his room in the middle of the night to get into things, breaking toys etc etc... I just don't know what to do. I've tried time out, spanking, talking, yelling....none of it seems to work...he just goes right back to what ever it was he was doing and within a matter of minutes after telling him "Please don't do that." he does it again!!! I'm beginning to wonder if maybe he has a learning disability of some kind, because this just didn't happen overnight. He's been this way since before he was two. Can someone please give me some advice?