I am at a loss on what to do with my 5 year old. He has always been the social outgoing one/ class clown. He loves to make people laugh and usually marches to the beat of his own drum (but in a good way) He started Kindergarten this year and things have changed. He is talking back more, lying alot (usually pretty obviouse) and we have already had 2 calls from the school because he is throwing tempertantrums in the middle of class and is uncontrolable.
He has an older brother but they are only 15 mos. apart and share everything; thier room, thier toys, thier TV time, EVERYTHING. I am racking my brain on how to punish my 5 year old for this behavior he is doing at school whithout taking something away or punishing his older brother in the process. His brother, for the first time, came home with an amazingly good week-end report so as a reward to him we were going to let him have a friend stay the night. Now that the 5 year old has gotten in trouble I am afraid this will be taken away from his brother because, again, they share a room. What is fair to both of them?
We do time outs at home and when he goes through his tantrums/flodding periods i send him into his room untill he calms down. We then talk about why his behavior is unacceptable.
Any suggestions?