We have a 5 year old girl who is very bright. She began reading at 2, can write sentences, knows numbers through 1000. She has been at daycare/pre-k since birth, but for the past few years she is not listening to people in authority. Autism is not a concern. Although her hearing is normal, she will refuse to do tasks in class that she does not want to do. She's always been a serious child but can be goofy and fun in general. At times, she will try to manipulate teachers in school (several teachers), her swim teacher, grandmother, aunt, father, etc. etc. to get out of things she doesn't "feel" like doing. She tells me she "doesn't have fun in school." We tell her that school, work, etc. is not always fun, but it is our responsibility to try our best, even when it is not fun. She does not seem to care about a reward chart or with the consequences she is given. In fact, she has stated, "I did not behave well today, so what is my consequence? Are you taking away my toys, TV, just let me know." We are direct and stern with her when needed, and praise her for good behavior. We don't believe in spanking. Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated. We are always told she is so bright and that we love her.... but will she will only do what she wants to do. She responds to short term consequences, but nothing that will carry over. Thanks for any advice you can provide!!!