Aa
A
A
Close
Avatar universal
6 year old girl rubs her privates on sister. This cannot be normal
PLEASE HELP.
Today I caught my 6 year old daughter rubbing her privates on her 4 year old sister. When I saw her and confronted her she said she saw it on a movie and it felt tingly when she did it. Talking more to my 4 year old she said she also kissed her privates and made her kiss hers. Now I absolutley no neither of my girls have been abused as I am a single mum on my own for 4 years and don't work and am the only one who watches the girls alone.
But surely this is not right. I read all other topics about self playing which yes i can see is just exploring but she involved her sister. Is this different???
Cancel
5 Answers
5 Answers
Page 1 of 1
Avatar universal
you never played doctor when you were this age? i am wondering where she saw this movie, but kids explore with themselves and each other. sure if feels good, why wouldn't kids want to try things out. i tell my kids this is something they do in private and not to involve others as they may not be comfortable with it, but i know it will continue for several more years. my concern is more about teaching them to respect the privacy and comfort of others.
Comment
Cancel
Avatar universal
Comment
Comment
Submit Comment
Avatar universal
My two daughters of the same age were just caught doing the rubbing thing.  They called it "sexing".  My 6 year old doesnt live with me and my 4 year old.

Should I keep them apart for awhile?  Should I stop the 6 year old from sleeping over?  I mean whats the next step from here?  

I dont want it happening again.
Comment
Cancel
Avatar universal
Comment
Comment
Submit Comment
535822 tn?1443980380
It would seem that you dont always see what is happening or how could she see any porn movie describling what she saw....do you never go out, never have a baby sitter ? no family .
Comment
Cancel
535822 tn?1443980380
Comment
Comment
Submit Comment
973741 tn?1342346373
Yes,  when you say it is called "sexing" you should be fully aware that a serious issue is there.  No they should not be allowed together but I'd start looking into the situation the 6 year old is living in.  One of these children has been exposed to something or been molested.  I say that because "sexing" is not a word a six year old or four year old would just know.  Beyond just a red flag---------- that is a beacon to tell you that something is very wrong.  

Comment
Cancel
973741 tn?1342346373
Comment
Comment
Submit Comment
Your Answer
Avatar universal
Answer
Know how to answer? Tap here to leave your answer...
Answer
Submit Answer
A
A
Blank
Weight Tracker
Weight Tracker
Start Tracking Now
Child Behavior Community Resources
RSS Expert Activity
233488 tn?1310696703
Blank
Marathon Running Done Over Many Yea...
May 21 by John C Hagan III, MD, FACS, FAAOBlank
233488 tn?1310696703
Blank
New Article on Multifocal IOL vs &q...
May 21 by John C Hagan III, MD, FACS, FAAOBlank
748543 tn?1443740527
Blank
TMJ/TMJ The Connection Between Teet...
01/15 by Hamidreza Nassery , DMD, FICOI, FAGD, FICCMOBlank
Top Children's Health Answerers
13167 tn?1327197724
Blank
Austin, TX
973741 tn?1342346373
Blank
189897 tn?1441130118
Blank
San Pedro, CA