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6 year old girl rubs her privates on sister. This cannot be normal
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6 year old girl rubs her privates on sister. This cannot be normal

PLEASE HELP.
Today I caught my 6 year old daughter rubbing her privates on her 4 year old sister. When I saw her and confronted her she said she saw it on a movie and it felt tingly when she did it. Talking more to my 4 year old she said she also kissed her privates and made her kiss hers. Now I absolutley no neither of my girls have been abused as I am a single mum on my own for 4 years and don't work and am the only one who watches the girls alone.
But surely this is not right. I read all other topics about self playing which yes i can see is just exploring but she involved her sister. Is this different???
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you never played doctor when you were this age? i am wondering where she saw this movie, but kids explore with themselves and each other. sure if feels good, why wouldn't kids want to try things out. i tell my kids this is something they do in private and not to involve others as they may not be comfortable with it, but i know it will continue for several more years. my concern is more about teaching them to respect the privacy and comfort of others.
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My two daughters of the same age were just caught doing the rubbing thing.  They called it "sexing".  My 6 year old doesnt live with me and my 4 year old.

Should I keep them apart for awhile?  Should I stop the 6 year old from sleeping over?  I mean whats the next step from here?  

I dont want it happening again.
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It would seem that you dont always see what is happening or how could she see any porn movie describling what she saw....do you never go out, never have a baby sitter ? no family .
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Yes,  when you say it is called "sexing" you should be fully aware that a serious issue is there.  No they should not be allowed together but I'd start looking into the situation the 6 year old is living in.  One of these children has been exposed to something or been molested.  I say that because "sexing" is not a word a six year old or four year old would just know.  Beyond just a red flag---------- that is a beacon to tell you that something is very wrong.  

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