Well i need some advice.I made the mistake of telling my 10 yrs old to help me take sister 2yr old a bath.right away he said i will being busy in the kitchen i thought that would be out of the way.About 5 minutes later..something told me to go check up on them.. the door was locked i started banging on the door he opened it right away..I asked him why do u have the door locked he said im taking her a bath..i walked away he dried her and changed her still not thinking.that took 2minutes..well that same day i @ night i took her a bath when i was dring her. she mentioned his name and pointed at her private area..and i said what mama what is it..she was just calling out his name i then yelled his name to come here and i told her to repeat it again and she did.well he said no i didnt..having a stupid face, i told him u are not intrtouble but you know ur not suppose to be touching her or anybody else..he said i know..i asked has someone touched u? he said with a stupid face..i said those r ur privates and no one should touch u or ..or nobody only mom and dad or the dr. so, we left it @ that my husband his dad talked to him because u see my husband has custody of his three children he was 4 when i met him and i had one son that is now 9..the 2yr old is both of ours..i have always talked to the about that and safety and predetors..my dtr thank GOD told my mother in law infront of me. i then said yes thats true she told me that too.she mentions once in a while he or my 9 yrs old are not allowed to bath her or change.while im here on my laptop she was sitting next to me just in her panties touching her self over her panties.i asked her what are you doing? she then said his name again showed me the finger and pointed down there. This is crazy i feel..u always think not @ my house. What would be the best for both of them..since then i am very careful with her its SCARY..any advice
I haven't slept since this happened!! I feel awful! My mom is a counselor and she said to just watch them closely but I cannot watch them every minute of every day! I feel like he has been abusing my child! I know he is just 7 but I feel he should know better than to do it to another child and my little boy is only 3!! I talked to my son and he will be 4 next month so he talks very openly to me! I told him it was wrong and he understands but what needs to happen to my nephew? I think something but I don't know what? I talked to his parents and he got punishment but is that enough????
Are you serious? Keep them away from each other. None of that is appropriate and you should talk your three year old about that being wrong. Your story makes me sick to my stomach. Something has been done to your child's cousin and/or he has seen something and he needs help. Both of the little boys should seek some professional help now. Good luck...keep them away from each other and protect your child.