I currently have custody of my 8-year-old neice who has been diagnosed with Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), ADHD, Sexual reactivity, and depression. I have had her for the past two years now and she has numerous resources at her disposal. She, lately, has been lying, stealing, and doing things to physically harm herself, though some things aren't major, some things are. I have tried to instill in her what can happen with lying and stealing and have often times addressed the self harming behavior but they all still continue. When she does things against others or herself she shows no guilt or remorse at all and seems to not have a conscience. She has a very strong "I don't care" attitude and doesn't seem to change. The last time I spoke with her therapist, she brushed it all off as age appropriate behavior. In her situation, she comes from a home of sexual abuse and mental illness. She is on medication, but nothing seems to be helping. She is also wetting the bed nightly and no amount of medicine, discipline, or anything seems to work. I feel like I have tried every avenue available to help her, but I'm feeling at a loss. She also doesn't seem to want to get any help for the things that are affecting her. If anyone has any advice, please send it my way. I'm very frustrated and don't know what to do.