My son is a very sweet loving boy, but he has some issues.
One is he cannot keep his hands to himself, he is not necessarily hurting anyone, but he hugs the teachers and touches other kids to get there attention and we are trying to teach him about self control and to stay out of others' bubble. When company comes over he wants to sit on their lap. It seems to hurt his feelings that nobody likes that or pushes him away, but at the same time he's getting to old to do that. No matter how many times we try to explain it he still can't get it through his head. This has been a problem at home and at school.
Also, he is addicted to video games and watching tv....he wants to rush through his homework, chores, making his lunch, taking a shower...just so he has time to play the Wii or watch movies. This is probably my fault because at first I thought it was okay. Now he seems to not be able to be reasonable or use common sense even when it comes to wiping off the table...I have to give specific directions. I feel like all I do is yell and argue with him and this is resulting to a low self esteem for him and me carrying a huge elephant of guilt in my chest. Any suggestions??