Hello, i am a 37 year old single parent of two boys, i was married to thier father who was mentally ill and i did not know it. He started abusing me a few years into the marriage and my sons witnessed it early on, i finally got out of the situation. I was left to fend for myself and two unstable boys, i have gone threw hell, i have had so much family therapy i could be a therapist myself, nothing changed, i have been involved with the legal system as well, nothing. I am now dealing with being abused both mentally and physcially by both, more so the oldest boy who will be 16 at the end of this month (Feb.) He rules my household and i ca not take it much longer! He is mean and he is a bully who follows none of my rules, does no chores and eats everything that comes into the house, i have to hide food and money, he steals and also pushes his brother around...I am suffering so much, i feel like i will have a mental breakdown, i did no drugs at all during my pregnancy or during the birth of either or my children, they have both been on medication, the younger one is now on Litium, Respidol and Clonidine HCL I feel he would be okay if the other boy were not in the household, i don't know what to do....i could be here all day writing all the things that he has done....HELP!