Anger § low self esteem in a 5 year old

[Rosy]

My 5 y.o. son started school this year.He is very bright and the youngest in the school. A quiet, timid, non-aggressive child, he now says he is 'dumb', that he hates himself, that he is bad, that he doesn't know how to play games, that he is scared and doesn't know how to have fun or be happy.
He has started hitting his head with his fists and yells with frustration when things go wrong or he does not succeed at what he is doing.  
Is this just a phase or something more serious? Help us please!!

[Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D.]

Your son's change in demeanor and behavior indicate that some follow-up is needed. First, it would make sense to meet with his teacher and see what she makes of this. Perhaps there have been some particular developments that have been instrumental in his reaction. Second, speak with your son about his thoughts. Try not to be overly reassuring or to counter his point of view. Instead, express interest in his observations and sound him out about what he's experiencing. Third, ask the folks at school if they think he needs professional follow-up. It's not obvious from your note that he does, but he might.