Please help...we have a 9 year old son and since he was 3 urinates and deficates in his bedroom at times, No rhyme or reason as to why, he does not know why he does it and no matter the punishment (spank, grounding etc) he keeps doing it. He has been fully toilet trained since he was 2. He does not wet the bed but will urinate or deficate in his room, in the closet under his bed on his laundry etc. We have asked the doctor what to do or why he is doing it and he has no answer for us. We have had to rip out the carpet in his room and throw out many toys and some clothes. There is no cycle to when he does it. He does it in the morning, evening sometimes during the day. The other problem we have is he constantly urinates with the toilet seat down which causes him to urinate on the seat and floor. He will leave it there until the next person has to use the bathroom and they fine the mess. When our son is confronted about it he says that he did not do it.
Please help