Thank you for your response to my previous questions. I'm in a quandry and feel like throwing my hands up in the air over the medical care of my son. Briefly, he's 6 and diagnosed with complex partial seizures predominately in the right occipital area. When the symptoms of the seizures began in April, also did tics - mostly motor, occasionally vocal. They have waxed and waned since then, but his neurologist says he has Tourettes as well. He initially started with sudden jerking of the head and limbs. Over time we've seen a personality change, but with each trial of medication, Tegretol, Depakote and now Dilantin, new things enter the picture such as the incontinence and volatile rages. Each time medication is withdrawn these symptoms, espcially the incontinence, either disappear or lessen in frequency. A conversation with his neuro. this week and the effects of these medications left me baffled. She feels like anything other than his seizures are a behavioral issue and he should seek counseling. She has never heard of any of the side effects he's experienced, especially having been on three different ones. Granted, Dilantin seems to have had the least side effects, but he's not up to full doseage yet, but the loss of bladder control resumed when Dilantin was started. However, his rages are NOTHING compared to what they were on the Depakote. My thoughts are that with the pattern of behavior he experienced while on these drugs it's almost like being stuck in a cycle - he gets angry, but can't handle it and is out of control. That is how he reacted every time. Without medication, he get's angry, but instead of kicking and screaming in a matter of seconds he raises his voice and says he's angry. He has to learn how to react all over again each time, but is more compliant off medication. With medication there is no dealing with him during a rage. So while some of this may be behavioral, it's only because that was the cycle he was stuck in on medication. This is what he learned. One night as he went to bed (while on Depakote) he started thrashing in his bed and cried that he couldn't stop moving. I picked him up and just held him and rocked him while he cried and cried and said, "I don't know what's wrong with me." I knew what it was - the Depakote. But now his neuro. says anything he does that's not a seizure is behavioral. What do I do now? I'm at a total loss here.