Can you please help me?

My husband and I have been married over 20 years and we have a 18 year old daughter and 14 year old son.  My husband never give my daughter the time of day.  Her and I have always been so close.  It''s all different now, she never wants to be around me and it appears she hates the sight of me.  My husband has been going to her bedroom constantly laying on her bed and talking.  Then of course he says he fell asleep but this is now an everynight situation and now he wants her to go everywhere with him.  Their whole relationship is different.  Could he possibly be having sex with his own daughter?  What do you think is really going on?


This discussion is related to Sleeping in bed with mom.

[patsyburrell]

Please someone talk to me and tell me if you or anyone you know has ever experienced anything like this.  I'm just in shock and I want to know how to find out if it is happining. Do I ask them? It's so hard to act normal like nothing is going on.

[foursquare]

What's your gut telling you?

I think this is one of those things where you need to trust it.


If it's true, you need to get your husband out of the house PRONTO.

[margypops]

I think you need to have some straight talking here and tell him you are not comfortable with his behavior , havent you asked your daughter about it , you should sit and ask her , when you know he is in her bedroom you should call him out and really not allow it as it seems like enablement .,the fact you know and he is still doing it, if he wants to talk to your daughter tell him you will join in and talk in the living area.

[star029655]

Why don't you stay awake when he is in there and just walk in the room in the middle of the night.  You need to trust what you feel inside and act.