I am a singe Mom. My daughter is 11-years old, a good student, has friends, and is frequently described as "a bright, nice, polite girl." Over the past several months, we have had problems with her overall cleanliness, hygiene, and general apathetic attitude when it comes to cleaning up after herself and doing her few weekly chores. When I recently discussed these with her pediatrician he attributed her "issues" to laziness. He offered names of behavioral psychologists to try to help. The issues I'm referring to include not cleaning up after herself; putting dirty underpants inside her dresser drawers, closets, etc.; shoving clothes that may or may not be dirty under her bed, behind furniture, on the floor of her closet -- instead of putting them in a dirty clothes hamper or folding and putting away where they belong; "forgetting" to clean her bathroom once per week (i.e. cleaning her shower, sink and vanity every Saturday morning); and not throwing away trash. My daughter and I have had numerous discussions about these problems, but she can offer no explanation, nor has her behavior improved. I have taken away computer privileges, left her up in her room to clean up instead of playing, indicated that I will not buy her any more new clothes until I see that she takes care of the ones she has, etc. Nothing has worked. Can you please offer any suggestions? Any ideas as to why this has gone on for so long without change/improvement? I would greatly appreciate any help you can offer. Thank you!