My son just turned 6 and plays with an 8 year old boy. One is in Kindergarten and the other 2nd grade. About 2 months ago I heard my son's door shut and went in to check on him, I caught the older boy trying to touch my son's butt w/ his penis. I made the boy go home and talked to my son. He told me this boy calls it the penis butt game and has tried it about 3 times. Okay, my first question is can a young boy of 8 actually penetrate at this age and does my son need more therapy. I took him in once and the counselor said this is getting more common and to not talk about it anymore w/ my son so he forgets about it. Of course I cut off all play w/ this other boy. His parents are mad at me and say it is playing Dr. We live in the same neighborhood and I worry what this Spring will bring with them both being out (meaning what this other boy will say to people and how both boys will treat each other, I have not told my son to hate this other boy...I just told him what this other boy did was wrong and he can't play for awhile). I have been extremely devastated by this. I am with my 3 children all the time, the other two are girls. I have questioned them on good touch bad touch and nothing has happened with them with anyone else that I know of. I supervise my kids 85% of the time and I always know where they are at. I am very overprotective and have my computer in the living room and channels blocked on the tvs (no cable in their bedrooms).
My son has said more than 3 times the same story so we don't think it was his idea or that he has been abused...he is either here or at school no other play dates. HELP...how do I move on and what should I do???