just going back to what specialmom said about tattling...i've been going through foster parent trainings and have learned that tattling is not ok and that is whining to get your way or get someone else in trouble but that REPORTING is a good thing and should be encouraged when someone is doing something dangerous to themselves or others(these behaviors included)
Yes, agreed. My point was only that computers are a common part of a classroom setting these days and used directly for classroom duties of the teachers as well as academic tools. And within a classroom, things 'can' happen quickly and out of a teacher's eye sight. However, when this mother was trying to figure out what was going on with her daughter---- the teacher should have then turned a more watchful eye directly on what happened around her.
Who would guess that a boy was exposing themselves in kindergarten? It can happen obviously but you would think of other things going on first. At least, I would have.
So, I'd be upset if I was the mother here with the teacher for not observing what was going on with my daughter a little more closely after I brought her attention to issues---- but I'm sure this boy was very sneaky. NOW, the teacher will know and I'd expect big changes to take place.
That was all I was saying. Ultimately, we entrust our kids to the school and teachers and it is their responsibilty to make sure the kids are safe.
Teachers may well use a computer for attendance' and lessons ...in kindergarten .... but I feel that if this boy is able to sit at the table showing his privates to your child and another..there is a problem and it lies on the responsibility of the teacher . Hope you can get some help .....
Yes, I think that addressing this formally will be helpful to getting it to stop. I would also work with your daughter to give her the words to express "STOP IT" to a boy who is doing that. She should stand up and go to her teacher and say "he showed me his privates." Encourage her to find her voice. I'm not a tattle tail kind of mom--------- but at this point, she should speak up.
I know when my kids were in kindergarten, there are certain times of the day that are more chaotic than others. As kids are coming in is one of them. The teacher is greeting children, checking things off, getting ready for attendance, etc. Lots of movement in the room at that point. Our teachers use computers for attendance and lessons------- lap tops that they have with them. Recess is another time that is notoriously chaotic and 'things' happen. She probably has a gym teacher for PE and not her regular teacher. So the principal will need to make sure the PE teacher knows as well.
I think teachers in general do want to help kids. I've been in both my boys classes and things can happen on the sly. Now you've got specifics about what has been going on with another child to back your child up---- I suspect you'll see an end to the problem.
But it also sounds like your daughter is full day kindergarten???? That can be a long day for some 5 year olds. I opted for half day for both of my boys. Is the day too long for her? Just wondering about that.
Anyway, sorry that happened----- hope it resolves. The school counselor will probably do a lesson on "taking care of ourselves and others" for the class. They are excellent resources for these types of things.
I think you are doing the right thing in speaking to the principal ..it seems to me there should be more supervision ..now your daughter has told you this the parents of this boy and as its happening at school the principal needs to get involved in stopping him .May I ask what it is the children are being taught if the teacher is on the computer ?