Not sure that I can really help you...but when children do a repetitive thing over and over again, it is often something that comforts them. I'm not sure about ear rubbing, but sometimes when children tug on their ears (usually babies) it can sometimes be because they have an ear infection.
Is this something that it really affecting your quality of life? Or is it something you do that it not often noticed by others? If it is really bothering you that much, then you might want to visit a therapist to help you further explore why this is occurring.
I have no answers b/c I do the same thing...and I'm 32 year old lawyer:) For as long as I can remember I've rubbed other people's ears. My dad, my cousin, whoever in the family would sit through it (my mom and sister wouldn't let me come near their ears). In a strange way, rubbing soft squishy ear lobes has a calming effect. Although I don't do it as much as I did as a child, I thank god I have a husband who doesn't mind this weird idosyncrasy.
I feel like I'm in "Rubbing Ears Annonymous", lol. I am 24 and have done this for as long as I can remember, and always have been curious why I have this strong habbit that I cannot seem to break. Glad to know their are others....
my lil Girl loves to Rub Ears.. It started when she was 3. At first i thought it was an ear infection and had her looked at ,nope not that . Then other parents started noting and urged me to bring her again. I knew better thou because she liked rubbing mine too. I was worried maybe she was lacking affection, i was wrong. She simply enjoys it. It was so funny one day we caught her rubbing both her ears and sucking her bottom lip. Makes for great photo opps lol..She still a year latter does it. Frankly i love it, sometimes it can be aggravating to me because i have to bend down or get uncomfortable for her. but other times i miss it. She also rubs my arms and cheeks. About a week ago she came to work with me and i was interviewing some folks for a position in my Health Club. She walked up to me in the middle onf the interview and i knew what she wanted so slouched without a 2ed thought and she grabbed my ear lobe. The interview started giggling and we had a great laugh over it. The most important thing to our family is that she is comfortable and confident in herself. For her this helps. <3 you baby girl!!!
Wow I also do this. I am 25 and have done it as long as I can remember. As I've gotten older I try to fight the urge. Always wondered why I do it. Didn't realize there were actually other people out there that did this. Makes me feel a little better :)
You'd be surprised how many little quirks the human race has in common. I'd imagine you did it as a child to self soothe, relax. Then it became habit and is now involuntary. Don't feel odd though. So many people do this and that and feel alone with it when in reality, everyone has 'something' that they do.
I have a grand child who has been rubbing her ear lobes as a newborn. Her father also rubbed his as a newborn. Is this a self taught method of self gratification i.e. stress relefer, that may lead to other things such as masterbation (masturbation) as one gets older?
I am so shocked that their are ear rubbers out there too ! I used to suck my thumb and play with my dads ears all the time I quit sucking my thumb but still rub ears only my boyfriends and sons ears. I have always wondered about this qwerk .
My 51 year old engineer husband touches the ears of me and our children. It started when he was 3 or 4 and saw another boy touching ears in the doctor's waiting room. Our younger son (17) also touches ears, he says it's for comfort, but also sometimes "clicks" them LOL When he was young it could be uncomfortable to maneuver my head to a place where he could reach my ears and inconvenient at times but most of the time I take it as a sign of affection.
My little girl loves to rub my ear lobes,and my son rubs my elbows... im not sure if i should let them, but it comforts them a lot... Im trying to find out if theres any meaning why my kids sometimes rub my ear lobes or elbows for comfort. I love my kids so i dont mind it, but i dont want them to develop any bad habits or something.
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