Getting an evaluation for an unruly five year old in Manhattan

Can you please recommend someone for us to bring out unlruly five year old.  Like many of the other parents on this forum he is a smart and sweet boy but tends to not listen to his mother the most (he listens in varying degrees to father, uncle and babysitters).  We would like to have him evaluated so that someone with more experience can recommend a plan of action.

[RockRose]

You can ask your pediatrician for behavioral therapists for children in your area,  or call the public school your son is attending (or will attend next year) and ask for a behavioral therapist to evaluate him.  

Since some people do have some success with him,  it sounds like the mother also needs parenting classes and the whole family unit would probably benefit from family therapy.

Best wishes.