Help!!! # year old pooping and peeing

[redmomma06]

   First off I didn't know whether to post this under behavior or normal!! My son will do great sometimes but mostly seems to not care if he pees and/or poops in his underwear!! I'm washing pissy sheets and pissy/poopy clothes almost everyday!! We did the reward thing..didn't work, did the dancing and singing thing...didn't work, did the target (cherrios) floating in toilet ..didn't work. We have talk with him(repeativly),done the timeouts,has had him clean up after hisself. Like this morning..he peed in the tiolet after getting up, but less then thirty minutes later I find him playing with his toys in a pair of underwear full of poop and wet with pee!!! Sitting there playing!!!
  Am I doing something wrong?..Is there something wrong with him? Or is this normal? I don't like to lose my cool but AAARRRHHHH!!!

[Sandman2]

  It would be really helpful to know how old your son is - as that makes a big difference.  Also, has he ever been toilet trained?  and has regressed?  

[Kreitz31]

What do I do with my son because he poops and pees where ever he what's in the toys outsoutside I need answers