Last week, we had a problem where she kept running to the bathroom to poop, but nothing ever came out.....she was afraid it was going to hurt so she wouldnt push.....since then, she has pooped in her underwear daily....I believe it a mental rather than physical problem as she told me she knows she has to go, but tries to hold it in because afraid it will hurt. I think it's no coincidence that this only happens when she comes home from school. I dont want to punish her, but I dont want to clean up after her either. I have just started using a reward system wherein she gets a check for each day she goes on the toilet, and after 5 can get a toy....But it just started today so I have no idea how it will play out.
Any help is greatly appreciated. I noticed the responsed were mostly about boys, I was wondering if there is a difference b/w sexes and this problem.