Yes, things have certainly changed in kindergarten these days. I think we even had nap time when I was in kindergarten.
Perhaps your sons teacher could spend a little extra time geting to know your son, showing him a little extra attention. I know she has a classroom full of kids but this would go a long way for him, I think. He needs to feel safe and cared for there. My son---- with his delay---- always has to have rapport with teacher. We went before school started and met her and walked all around the room and school to help him feel comfortable. He just must feel out of his element.
Also, having a friend is invaluable. Even just one friend can help him to feel excited about school. Ask his teacher who a likely canidate for this would be and work on it. Set up a playdate and foster this relationship.
My son came home yesturday with sheets where on the first day he had to not only write his name (which we've worked on a lot) but the names all of his classmates. This was the first day---- I can't wait to see what they are writing on the last.
Good luck!
Wow sounds like your little man did awesome. My son did really well on the drop off the first day of school my husband and I said "bye see you after school" and he sayed "see ya" we had to ask for a hug lol then a hour later he started balling. Maybe he thought we abondoned him or something.
Yes, I hear lots of boys are ready, I just feel he needs to around kids and a learn in a classroom setting. Even if her has to repeat or go into a preschool instead at least be would get use to it eventually.
One little boy was even picking on him making fun of him crying then the teacher told him to knock it off! This school seems to expect a lot from kinders such as expecting them to know how to write their names, write letters and sound them out, all colors shapes. It is one of the best schools in town. Jezz I remember when I was in school as long as you could color in the lines, write your name, and knew how to count and sang your ABCs you graduated kinder lol.
My son just started kindergarten today! (After a few secret tears from Mama), I sent him off. He was very brave (I knew he was scared)--- but I kept a smile on my face and a posative tone. I took him to the bus and said bye with a quick hug and he was off. That is what his teacher told us to do. Lingering goodbyes make it worse, she says.
My son has a developmental delay, so I have lots of worries about him starting "real school" but that is one of the things school is for. They see a variety of kids with different challenges. Some with a disability, some with a delay, some who just have trouble adjusting.
Your poor guy needs lots of reassurance but I would keep trying with school. The fact that they accomadated him and are allowing him half days is fantastic. If this issue continues for a long period of time and you start to notice other issues cropping up, then you can reconsider.
I will tell you what our school really stresses, however, is emotional/developmental maturity. They would prefer a child to have this vs. knowing their abc's. Some kids are just not ready at an early 5 and probably more boys than girls. I didn't know when my boy would meet this criteria (can't start kindergarten at 12 ...) so we decided to give it out best shot. It wouldn't be a knock on your son if this turns out he is not ready. But keep trying this for now and see if he eventually settles in.
good luck!
Thanks for the reasureance! I think eventally he will get over it too! This evening I was actually about to get him to write or copy some letters with a little help of course without crying. So that is a step closer!
It was very good do not be sorry it was long, its the really short one liners that are hard, LOL I will give you my thoughts, he is an only child and used to being with his parents, you are good caring parents this is obvious the way you write about him, I think you have to let him get on with it, drop him off at school and leave go back when school is done, ignore any crying, the school will cope with it, possibly he is aware it is causing you some anxiety and he is getting a reaction. It sounds as if your husband is staying with him, he will be fine once this all stops, so take a deep breath and a big step back, he will be okay ,the school will be able to cope. ,it doesnt matter if he doesnt play with the kids to start with .....he will eventually.