Help with 9 year old girl

My nine year old daughter spent the night with a friend and was caught having sex with her, she was on top. Is this normal behavior for a nine year old girl

[sania19]

i dont think this is normal behaviour i think you shud talk to her ask her in normal talk.

[margypops]

It would be a good thing as she is nine years old to talk to her about sex, I dont think this episode means much I am assuming they are the same age, maybe cut out the sleepovers ...Did the other parents see this behavior, what do they say about it ?

[butterfly0fairy]

I ahve not heard of an inccident like this before but children do exprment they may touch themselves or each oher out of courisoty and trying to understand there bodys what different parts do and feel like, however if the have seen that type of behaviour for the instance tv heard older sibling talk about it  they could of got the idea from there and decdied to try it out i would sit down with your child and talk to them ask the if they knew what they were doing were did they get the idea and maybe monitor the programs there watching, these days even in children programmes there is alot of sexual content it is important you talk to your child in a way they will understand and explain to them what sex is and how that behaviour is apporiate at there age.make sure they know there not in trouble just that you want to understand and explain to them what sex is.

[butterfly0fairy]

sorry was ment to say not appropriate