I have 3 kids, 13, 9 and 7, girl, boy, girl. My oldest two are from a previous relationship and do not have contact with their biological father. My husband married me when they were 1 and 5 so he is the only father they have ever known. There are quite a bit of problems that I'm not going into right now, but one. The youngest, the girl I had after being married and who has had both parents and a brother and sister and grandparents is evil! Lol I do not understand what to do with her seriously. Last night I ended up pinning her down to the floor and trying to make her apologize for calling me names and throwing a temper tantrum. This did not work either. She is so strong willed and defiant and it's like she loves to fight and never gives up and NOTHING is ever her fault! My middle child, the only boy has ADHD and takes medication, but he does not act out the way she is. My 13 year old, a teenager, can be difficult, but not to this degree. At school, all my kids behave better than at home, and my youngest, the very best! I am beginning to want to take the oldest two and leave my youngest with her father because they get along pretty well. I work full time, am educated and handle conflicts at work with professionalism but I don't even want to be home anymore. I also attend church and have a strong love for the things of God, but I feel like I can't take this anymore. Somebody please tell me what to do, I don't know anymore and am breaking down.