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Inappropriate Behavior
I’m the oldest of 5 children I have three Sisters and One brother. My sister is 22, My brother is 19 and the twins are 14 years old.
My brother will often walk up behind my mother and puts his arms around her and kisses her neck and cheeks then lifts her up off the ground and bends backwards so that her body is resting against his.
He will also walk around the house in nothing but a towel when the twins and their young friends are around the house.
He will often sleep in their bed with them and I’ve found him sleeping and cuddling with one of the twins 13 year old friends on the couch holding her close to him while he is sleeping.
He will also sit one of the twins in his lap with no shirt on and he will be wearing running shorts but with no underwear. While he has one of the twins on his lap he will wrap his arms around them and rub his check against their cheek and kiss them on their neck and cheek while he has his eyes close.
He has a very abnormal behavior with his older sister which is 22. They are extremely close and it is believed my 2 of my Uncles and I that they’ve slept together and had sexual inter course with each other.
My brother has a very close relationship with the twins 13 year old female friend. We’ve caught them alone in his vehicle and a few times when no one else was home I would come in and find home with her alone in the house.
I myself lived and was raised by my Grandparents until I was the age of 12. My grandmother passed away then I lived with my folks it was like living in a whole other world. I am now married with a son I live a couple of hours away. My wife doesn’t want my family any where near our son and family I understand that and I agree with that. I guess what I would like to know is what type of advice or help can I give the twins.
This discussion is related to What is normal sexual behavior between siblings?.
My brother will often walk up behind my mother and puts his arms around her and kisses her neck and cheeks then lifts her up off the ground and bends backwards so that her body is resting against his.
He will also walk around the house in nothing but a towel when the twins and their young friends are around the house.
He will often sleep in their bed with them and I’ve found him sleeping and cuddling with one of the twins 13 year old friends on the couch holding her close to him while he is sleeping.
He will also sit one of the twins in his lap with no shirt on and he will be wearing running shorts but with no underwear. While he has one of the twins on his lap he will wrap his arms around them and rub his check against their cheek and kiss them on their neck and cheek while he has his eyes close.
He has a very abnormal behavior with his older sister which is 22. They are extremely close and it is believed my 2 of my Uncles and I that they’ve slept together and had sexual inter course with each other.
My brother has a very close relationship with the twins 13 year old female friend. We’ve caught them alone in his vehicle and a few times when no one else was home I would come in and find home with her alone in the house.
I myself lived and was raised by my Grandparents until I was the age of 12. My grandmother passed away then I lived with my folks it was like living in a whole other world. I am now married with a son I live a couple of hours away. My wife doesn’t want my family any where near our son and family I understand that and I agree with that. I guess what I would like to know is what type of advice or help can I give the twins.
This discussion is related to What is normal sexual behavior between siblings?.
I see your concern it would seem that you have to speak to them regarding this, as they are adults theres not much you can do, but as there are 14 year olds and they are minors, there it is a concern, , you may have to ask advice outside the Family have you a Family doctor or anyone to confide in,or other similar expert in Family relationships, If it is as bad as you say you need to get them some help.If your Uncles think the same ask them to go with you .it is not good your Dad turns a blind eye , perhaps you and your Uncle should speak to him aagin and tell him you are really worried. Good Luck I see it isnt easy,
No, My Uncle’s and I have had conversations regarding my siblings behaviors and they also believe that my 22 year old sister and my 19 year old brother have had sex together.
Yes, I have direction asked my mother about the behavior and how it made me feel. She has told me it’s just because they all love each other so much and that I feel the way I do because I’m heartless, loveless and that I don’t love my siblings. My mother has a mental defect she isn’t as mature as a woman her age should be. The doctors actually told us that she is mentally 15 years old.
My Dad is aware of some of the behavior and he disapproves of it but turns a blind eye to it. He and I have both caught my brother in the act but he’s never took any action from preventing it.
Yes, I have direction asked my mother about the behavior and how it made me feel. She has told me it’s just because they all love each other so much and that I feel the way I do because I’m heartless, loveless and that I don’t love my siblings. My mother has a mental defect she isn’t as mature as a woman her age should be. The doctors actually told us that she is mentally 15 years old.
My Dad is aware of some of the behavior and he disapproves of it but turns a blind eye to it. He and I have both caught my brother in the act but he’s never took any action from preventing it.
amilies are very affectionate,some of his behavior does seem a bit too affectionate equally some of what you are seing could be normal, have you spoken to your Mom about this and what does she say, I idnt undersatand the bit about the Uncles, do you mean the Uncles said they slept with your sister or they had slept with her, and how do you know? The first thing to do is ask your Mom directly, tell her you are uncomfortable with the Dinamics in the house as it isnt simply your Brother you are also saying the others all behave in the same way,Where is your Father in all this ?
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