I have a son who love to irritate, do the opposite of what you say, argumentative, speak then thinks, he gets in trouble alot at school for this behavior on the other hand he is very intelligent, he will be taking AP courses next year in middle school, gets commended on TAKS, loves to read, reads about history, he is a very big boy 5'3 125lbs. He gets in trouble quite a bit and knows he shouldn't have done it, but he is quick to react. I have to be a drill sargent and so does his dad, it's quite irritating. Does anyone know what I am talking about, could anyone give me some kind of advice or reassurance that this is a boy or something that can be done. Any help would be great:)