My son began - "Rocking" himself to sleep in the crib before he was walking. He slept on his stomach and put his hands under his leg's and rocked every night until he fell asleep. As he has gotten older,(currently 5 years old), he continues the same routine, he now get's sweaty, his face turns beat red and has an errection. I have told him several times to go into his bedroom and that he should do that behind closed doors - by himself. He has done this at the daycare and now in Kindergarden at nap time. I have had Child Protective Services called on me for this reason - twice now, from both schools. I am concerned because, #1, I am an excellent mother. I love my child and he is well taken care of. I am happy to an extent that the school cared enough about the children to report it, but the fact remains, that children do this. I have talked to many many parents and have explained what my child is doing, in hopes that they could give me advice and I must say that more than half of these people have explained that their child has done the same thing. I found that this is pretty normal in kids. Why then, do I get called into Social Services about something that is normal in children......... Some more than others. As a society, we look at that as a bad thing, while children just look at it as a way for them to relax, not in a sexual way, but for them to relieve their stress. They don't understand, all they know is that they feel good when they do this. But, we as adults look upon them as "having a problem, or being abused in someway". As I said earlier, my son did this before he was walking and just never stopped. I think more study's need to be done on Child Behavior. Again, many parents told me the same stories of their children that I had been experiencing. So, why are the teachers / care givers, so disgusted by a child doing this? Maybe they are the ones that need to be educated, while the parents need to be educated on what to tell the child regarding that situation. As far as the psychologist's are concerned, what they know is what they have "learned" from books / study's / cases. I would like to get information and advice from a physcholgist - who has experienced this first hand - someone who has had a child that has done the same thing. Were you a good parent? What action did you take to keep your child from doing this in a public situation/daycare/kindergarden/sitters. For all the mothers out there who are going through this, my advice to you is to - #1, Make a record of your childrens habits, record via. camcorder when your child first start's doing this. As the child gets older and he goes from school to school, it's hard to prove when he / she began their "situation". I only say this, because my husband and I used to laugh at my son as an infant in his crib as he "rocked"....... Never thinking I would be sitting at the Child Protective Services for that same issue - twice in three years.