MY 4 YEAROLD IS VERY SEXUAL

[BRANDIMARYE]

MY 3 YEAR OLD,ALMOST 4, WALKED- IN ON ME AND HER DAD A FEW WEEKS AGO. SHE SEEN US NAKED ON TOP OF EACH OTHER. SINCE THEN SHES ALWAYS GOING INTO HER ROOM, GETTING UNDRESSED AND EXPLORING HERSELF. RECENTLY IVE FOUND HER LYING NAKED ON TOP OF A LIFE SIZE BARBIE, UNDER A BLANKET. IVE BEEN TRYING TO BE UNDERSTANDING AND GIVE HER ADVICE (THE BEST I CAN FOR HER AGE). I TELL HER ITS OK TO EXPLORE YOUR BODY BUT THAT ITS PRIVATE AND SPECIAL. NOW SHES BEEN TELLING ME THINGS LIKE,... A BOY IS COMING OVER AND THEY'RE GOING TO TAKE THEIR CLOTHES OFF AND HES GOING TO LICK HER. SHE HAS ALL KINDS OF STORIES AROUND THIS SUBJECT. I SO AFRAID AND I CANT JUST IGNORE IT LIKE EVERYONE TELLS ME TOO. IM WORRIED FOR HER. IT MAY JUST B ME BUT SHE SEEMS VERY SEXUAL FOR HER AGE. MY QUESTION IS HOW CAN I HELP HER GROW INTO A YOUNG, RESPECTABLE LADY AND NOT A **** (SORRY ABOUT HE CURSING)?

[margypops]

It does sound as if she has been exposed to more than seeing you guys, I would check out who you leave her with and protect her ,dont let children alone in any room, supervise ..

[AnnieBrooke]

She is being pretty specific for only having walked in on you one time.  I would ask her as calmly and casually as possible who said anything about licking, etc. just to rule out that she has seen more than you think or been exposed to something undesirable.