So, I recently found out that my brother in law molested his sister at the age of 15, she was 16. He would sneak into her room at night and molest her while she was asleep. He was addicted to pornography shortly after that and has always had a problem with being dishonest (lying about school, work, etc.). When in his mid-20's, his girlfriend fell asleep on him and he molested her. We found this out because he confided in my husband by sharing some of these things with him. A year ago, when i found all of this out, i made the decision to not have him alone or hold my daughter anymore. My husband confronted his brother about this and some family members. We have since then been almost cast out from his side of the family. Have been called judge-mental, self righteous, even that we (my husband and I) must have these such desires in order to point the finger at someone else ..etc. I believe this guy has a serious problem. He has denied any and all conversations with my husband, confessing these dark things that he has done and my in-laws now believe this guy over my husband and I. Am I crazy in not wanting my little girl around her "uncle"?