My 2 yr olds Behavior

[mommiesdream]

My daughter is always getting upset when you dont give her what she wants fast enough. She will  hit you , kick . scream, throw things. So has no patience, I  dont know what to do! She has a little sister that is one, and I dont want her to think it is ok. The think is when she is at school teachers say she is great! But she still have no patience. She has always been this way even when she was a baby and she wanted her bottle, if we didnt get it to her right than nshe would yell. When she is not acting this way she is very bright , always wanting to learn and do things on her own. But these tantrums are out of had, when we spank her she falls and cream more, when we use time out she falls even more or will hit her head on the floor wall or what ever is around. Please help


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