Hi, there. I am the proud mom of a beautiful 8-year-old daughter who has always had a lot of charisma. She has always had a strong personality, but her friends have just seemed to fall in line to be with her. We used to have to limit her playdates, because everyone wanted to play with her so often. Lately (past three months or so), however, it seems that one-by-one, they are starting to have play dates with one another and leaving her out. In fact, friends who met through her are getting together. When I ask her who she plays with on the playground and who she eats lunch with, it seems that she "skips" around to various groups, and her primary group of friends sticks together. When I brought her to a birthday party the other night, it was at a waterslide, and the girls were supposed to "stay together." Alli spotted a friend of hers and enthusiastically asked if she could be with them. They said, "No....we're already each other's partner." The same thing happened with another friend was she used to be very close to until recently. I could see the disappointment in her eyes. It broke my heart. There seems to be a pattern here, and when I have observed her with a couple of friends, it seems that they roll their eyes at things she does and says, and they just don't treat her that respectfully. I'm wondering if you can shed any light on the situation or give me any advice to help her. I can see that she's trying very hard to be a nice friend, but they truly don't seem that interested. Your advice is greatly appreciated. I love this kid. Not only is she smart and beautiful, she has a good and generous heart.