My Jealous Son

I have a son that barely turned 5.  Me and his father seperated when he was 6 months old.  After my son turned 1 year, I began dating again.  After dating this guy for 3 months, me and him started to get into a serious relationship, so that was when I decided to introduce my then boyfriend to my son.  We were dating for 2 years when we decided to get married.  I decided to get married with my now husband because my son would really get along with him and there were no conflicts.  So now that I am married and we are all living together, my son who is now 5 years old, seems to be very jealous of my husband.  When my son see's that my husband is giving me a kiss, he quickly stops what he is doing and goes rushing towards me and my husband, starts yelling and hitting my husband and sometimes he hits me and he becomes really aggressive.  I really try to get us three involved in activities cuse I think my son thinks im leaving him out.  But besides that, I dont really know how to let my son know that we are a family now and that no matter what, Im always going to love him.  Please Help!!!!!!

[91004]

Does your husband spend time with your son, like one on one, taking him to a game, or putt-putt, bowling. And is his father in the picture

[Mama83]

My son's father is in the picture, he picks up my son every other weekend.  My husband does spend time with my son, one on one, the thing is that my husband has like a friend relationship with my son, but I would really like for him to also have like a parent relationship, and I dont know how my husband could do that with him.