My son HELP! Required URGENTLY

[Hesan]

Hello Sir,
I am having a son of 13 years.
He was quite OK with his behavior all these years, but suddenly we noticed some change in his behavior and the change is that we have a kid next door my son was caught touching his pennis with that kid's pennis, and in our family it is considered very bad. I asked him that since when he is doing it or who told him these kind of things and told me that it has been happening with him from last two years. I am keeping him always with me in front my eyes, but he is kind of Affraid from his situation and not telling me completely that what is happening and what is not. I am just worried about that if he goes to school how shall i prevent this thing over there in the school because i will not be there.
I know that it is normal at this age but he should not be doing it.

Please provide some urgent help in this matter so that i can change his mind, i dont want my kid to be spoiled at this age. He is just 13 not even mature.
Please Doctor help me out. Hat home i can handle it but at school how shall i.
Please provide some assistance in this matter as soon as possible.

[markmik04]

If you judge too quickly he will shut down. If he is homosexual he really needs your love more than anything.  You may not approve, but he really can't help who he is. It is being proved more and more homosexuality is in our biology and not our choices.

[Ortarx]

Okay first of dont panic.  There is a major thing that needs to be addressed, you can not panic because you think he may be expiramenting with homosexuality.  First he is not going to tell you if he is because he knows that you are going to say something to him and tell him it is wrong.  You have to talk to him and not accuse or point the finger or threat in any way.  It is a matter of trust.  If he knows he can trust you and talk to you with out feeling pressured you will get much farther in understanding the situation.  First step is first approach the situation like you would want to be approached about it, with open ears not a punishment waiting to happen.  Ask him what he is doing why he is doing it and how he feels about it, and listen... dont judge just yet, listen to what he tells you.