Hello,
Our son will be 4 in September. He has been potty trained since Dec... he will go pee on the toilet no problem (with the occasional accident). The problem is with BM's. He will disappear, sit down, and try to hold it in. He has gone to the toilet for BM's, so it's not a case of not being able. When the urge comes to do one, he runs in the opposite direction of the toilet to go hold it in, as if he is scared to do it.
We have bought him superhero underwear and told him they need his help to keep the poo off, it sometimes works and sometimes doesn't. We do not use pull-ups or diapers. It is getting very trying for us, and I am terrified that this will cause him to not begin school in Sept.
We did take him to a Dr. and all she said was that it was normal and to give him prunes.. he isn't constipated, he just wont do it, unless there is something on the line for him (not allowed to go in the pool, no Wii, etc... ) but this is always after he already has an accident. FYI the accidents he has, are not huge BM's, they are for lack of a better term, skid marks in his underwear.
This is causing a ton of stress between my husband and I and how to deal with this.
Any advice you could offer would be greatly appreciated.
Many thanks,
Jen