Hello all, new here. I just don't know where to turn. My son is 4 years old and has taken to wetting his pants numberous times a day. I have read those "Toddler-how-to" books, and none of them seem to help. I just recently had baby number 2 in March, in a way, I think he is trying to compete for my attention. Because before #2 came along, he was doing awesome. He was finally potty trained last october. And it is not just the "accidents," but when I tell him to do something, he slumps over, crosses his arms and just tries to act all pitiful. This happens SEVERAL times a day. My husband is no help to top it off. Our son runs him over with a Mack truck all the time and my hubby has pretty much given up, so with that, I feel I am the only one doing the parenting. My son is also starting to act out verbally. He's not saying bad words, curse words are just not a part of our vocabulary. But when asked to do something, he will yell at us saying "ALRIGHT!!!" or "Whatever" and other stuff like "I'm outta here!" That's also another thanks to my husband. My husband gets as frustrated as I do, but what he doestn't understand, I am with my son 24/7. My husband has job that he is gone for two or three days and home about the same amount of time. But while he is home all he wants to do is sleep. He doesn't even help me around the house anymore. I am almost to my breaking point. Please, some helpful advice.