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Child Behavior (Expert Forum)
Nighttime
Answered by
Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D. - Child and Adolescent Psychotherapy, Family Therapy, Crisis Intervention
Harvard Vanguard Medical Associates
This forum is for questions and support regarding child behavior issues such: Child Discipline (behavior management), Normal Child Development, Parent-Child Communications, Social Development
Nighttime
by ali41, Aug 05, 2002 12:00AM
My 10 year old daughter has a fear of sleeping alone. She only feels comfortable sleeping in the same room as me (her mother). She sleeps on a mattress by the side of our bed (my husband and I) . This started a year ago and shows no sign of getting better. She has a complete panic attack if made to sleep with her younger brother in his room. Sleepovers are a thing of the past . We are at our wits' ends as to what to do next? any advice welcome.
Thanks
Alison Hutt
Thanks
Alison Hutt
Doctor's Answer
by Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D., Aug 05, 2002 12:00AM
, Aug 05, 2002 12:00AM
This version of separation anxiety tends to persist without some intervention. Separation anxiety is a type of anxiety disorder. With some children it is evident at a very young age, but with others it starts later in the school years. It would make sense to have her see a pediatric mental health professional. This person can evaluate her condition and guide you in how best to treat it. Sometimes a sytematic program of behavior management will suffice; at other times a course of cognitive-behavioral therapy (in addition to the behavior management) is warranted; and sometimes the above interventions in combination with medication is useful.
Member Comments (4)
by ali41, Aug 06, 2002 12:00AM
Thanks for your comments. This is what I thought we would have to do but as we live in Hong Kong most of these types of treatment and counselling are way too expensive. Also we don't want to put our daughter on any drugs at the moment. We will definitely think about counselling though.
by yqcole, Aug 07, 2002 12:00AM
My 8 year old daughter has had the same problems at night for the past 5 months. We are seeing a pediatric counselor and we've made small positive steps in only 3 visits. She is learning to deal with her anxiety and we've been able to do things for her (like putting a lite in her closet since she was afraid of it) based on the counselor's suggestions. It is not a quick process but it will certainly make you feel like there is hope for normal nights in your future. Hang in there...
by ali41, Aug 17, 2002 12:00AM
Many thanks for your comments, there is an ongoing discussion about all of this under "5 year old won't sleep in own room". There are many of us out there!
