Out of control 3 year old since starting day care

[sonographer]

Should my child continue in daycare if he has become a tyrant.  He has started hitting, kicking, throwing things, etc. He is giving teachers in daycare a hard time.  He has only been going 4 weeks and has changed into a very angry little boy.


This discussion is related to 3 year old with seperation anxiety.

[margypops]

Have you questioned what happens at the day care do they play with the children, stimulate them enough, there is usually a reason if a child changes suddenly or is differant at school than at home, find out more about the day care before you place the blame on him . My answer is No you shouldnt continue if it affects him this way but do not place all the blame on him, check out the facts .....l;

[specialmom]

I would go and observe for a half day or full day if you can.  Number one, you'll see what goes on there first hand yourself.  Number two, you'll be able to see your son in action and how he interacts in this different enviroment.  You may learn a lot with both things.  He also may be there too long if he's never been in that enviroment before and would benefit from a different schedule (if possible).  Good luck.

[AnnLara]

My son has the same behavior, its geared more towards the teachers and staff.. but he has been at the same center for over a year. it has gotten to the point where i have to come get him at least once a week from daycare. I trust the center and his teachers with my life and they have given me so much help. but i feel you. I do try to observe as special mom noted but i think its hard bc kids know when you are there and their actions may differ. have you tried to investigate the center? wether they have had complaints or anything? I know it sounds funny but have you tried to talk to him about why he acts like that.. and its a big change for little ones that arent used to the enviroment..