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Potty training
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Potty training
by Janine, Mar 08, 2000 12:00AM
My son is 3 years and 3 monthes old. He is completely bladder trained, and accomplished this without any difficulties. However reffuses to deficate in to toilet or potty chair. Do I just wait or is there something I could do to encourage this?
Doctor's Answer
by HVM M.D. - EV, Mar 08, 2000 12:00AM
Dear Janine,
I would be very pleased that your son is bladder trained - and not worry about his stooling habits - not for many months, if not another year.
Rather - I would make sure he is able to produce a soft stool daily, without discomfort - and with time, he will do this in the toilet. You really don't want to make a issue out of this - because that could lead to bigger problems. Congratulate him on using the potty at all, without inappropriate praise. And - remind him gently that eventually the bowel movement will go there, too. A little bit of encouragement is fine - but no push.
Many, if not most, boys take a little time.
Good luck - Dr. EV
I would be very pleased that your son is bladder trained - and not worry about his stooling habits - not for many months, if not another year.
Rather - I would make sure he is able to produce a soft stool daily, without discomfort - and with time, he will do this in the toilet. You really don't want to make a issue out of this - because that could lead to bigger problems. Congratulate him on using the potty at all, without inappropriate praise. And - remind him gently that eventually the bowel movement will go there, too. A little bit of encouragement is fine - but no push.
Many, if not most, boys take a little time.
Good luck - Dr. EV
Be patient and wait until your son is ready. Keep intrucing him to the potty, even having him sit on it a couple or a few times each day. Reward him when he does use the potty. Don't worry - he'll be fine.