Scared to grow up

[momofmiki]

My daughter is in the midst of accomplishing potty training. She is just over 3 and by that time, they typically will move her to a new room in her daycare. She has been doing great with very little accidents but at day care they have started to transition her and she screams. She has friends in there that moved up only a month or two ago.They wanted to move her up a while ago because she is a fast learner and want to take advantage of her willingness at such a young age. She isnt learning much in the toddler room.  Now she refuses to put on her underwear because she doesnt want to go in the big girl room. She says she is scared. But then again she has been scared to do just about everything lately, including allow me to leave a room, even if she can see me. She also started crying when I would drop her off...which is unlike her. She is normally a social butterfly so this is very different for her not wanting to move on. Anyone have any suggestions? or thoughts?

[ashebs]

this is all apart of growing up she tried independent now shes trying dependent just let her know that big girls are loved just as much as she was before and with the crying at kinder say your good bye then leave makes it less stressful for you both in time she will just go and play.