What is normally the problem when a child who listens to everything at home, refuses to do his school work and homework. The child is 9 and when in school he will sit there and not complete the assignment and hates school. Can this be an anger problem, behavior problem, mood swings, etc. He gets very upset when he fails and yet he will not care if his work is not complete.
His teachers recommended thearpy, but that did not work last year. This year they are looking to take him out of the gifted class and place him with the other class. He will just sit there and not do the classwork, can be math, writing etc. Then he gets upset and cries. He is historically stubborn and we are looking for some answers. He is very very unhappy in school. He does have friends in school and some come over for play dates.
This seems to be his only behavioral issue. At home he is fine.
Well, he shows classic symptoms of ADD, but I really don't have enough information to give that as a possibility yet.
You said his "teachers recommended thearpy, but that did not work last year." Could you give us more information on that. What kind of therapy? Who gave it?
I still would like to know his birth date and grade level just to rule that out.
This is one of the best sites for information on ADD and ADHD - take a look at it and see if any of the symptoms sound familiar. I don't think the hyper stuff will apply. What you are looking for is the inattention things.
The site is - http://www.help4adhd.org/en/about/what
It does sound like he is in over his head and is shutting down. Moving him out of the gifted class might be a good idea, but it doesn't deal with the problem that is causing his actions. He sounds like he is highly frustrated which is one of the classic ADD symptoms, especially if he had early success in school.
Since he apparently was having troubles last year too, it seem that we can rule out any recent home/school experiences that would lead to his actions?
So take a look at the site I recommended. I think you want to focus on the "ADHD, Predominantly Inattentive Type." Do let me know what they tried last year. I am also the CL on the ADHD site here - http://www.medhelp.org/forums/ADD---ADHD/show/175 - so feel free to post there if you have any questions about ADD. Best wishes.
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