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Sexual abuse or playing doctor?
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Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D. - Child and Adolescent Psychotherapy, Family Therapy, Crisis Intervention
Harvard Vanguard Medical Associates
This forum is for questions and support regarding child behavior issues such: Child Discipline (behavior management), Normal Child Development, Parent-Child Communications, Social Development

Sexual abuse or playing doctor?

by tunatoon, Oct 18, 2009 05:48PM
At age 15 y.o., son (child "A") reveals to mother that his stepbrother (child "B") touched him on his torso and private area both under and over clothes.  At the time of the touching, both boys were in 1st and 2nd grades or between 6 and 8 years of age.  He provides no further specifics about the incident, stating that he really doesn't remember much.

When B was 11 or 12 years old, he became a ward of the state after an incident in which he suddenly became angry with child A and threatened him with a steak knife.  Child "A" has never said that the two incidents were related; just that his stepbrother became a ward of the state because he has serious mental health issues.  B remains a ward of the state after repeatedly voicing homicidal ideations towards his father, stepmother, halfbrother (2 y.o.), and 2 stepbrothers (at that time ages 11 or 12 and 14 or 15).

Was the incident that A recently revealed an incident of playing doctor that young children go through or was it sexual abuse by child A against child B?

by Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D., Oct 19, 2009 06:44AM
There is no way to know the answer you seek because only the two participants in the episode know the nature of it. With so mnay years having elapsed since the epiode, trying to reconstruct it now is pointless. If the boy you refer to as Child A is having any emotional difficulties now relative to the incident, he should see a therapist.
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