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Sexual behavior in a 8 years old boy.
by criollitacubana30, Jul 07, 2008 08:38AM
Hi, sorry for my English, (I still learnig) and I hope you understand me.
My 8 years old son has being having some sexual interest with others boys since he was 5 years; that was when I saw him for the fist time doing this kind of behavior. At that time he was smelling another boy's butt. At first I though that it is normal at that age, that he may be curious and needs to explore the world. I did talk to him about it and explained that he can't do that. This time, I found him on the sofa with a boy of the same age having a simulation sex under the blanket. The other boy was on top of him, like doing it to him. I was in shock, after talking with him all day long he told me that it wasn't the first time, that happened before at the boy house when he sleep over, that the other boy kiss him on his lips 2 times then was doing it to him for 5 minutes. I really don't know what to do, this is not normal, do you think my son is gay or will be? He does boys staff, like playing with cars, basketball, he does not look like a girl or want to dress like a girl. What can I do? Is my son is normal?
My 8 years old son has being having some sexual interest with others boys since he was 5 years; that was when I saw him for the fist time doing this kind of behavior. At that time he was smelling another boy's butt. At first I though that it is normal at that age, that he may be curious and needs to explore the world. I did talk to him about it and explained that he can't do that. This time, I found him on the sofa with a boy of the same age having a simulation sex under the blanket. The other boy was on top of him, like doing it to him. I was in shock, after talking with him all day long he told me that it wasn't the first time, that happened before at the boy house when he sleep over, that the other boy kiss him on his lips 2 times then was doing it to him for 5 minutes. I really don't know what to do, this is not normal, do you think my son is gay or will be? He does boys staff, like playing with cars, basketball, he does not look like a girl or want to dress like a girl. What can I do? Is my son is normal?
Member Comments (2)
by margypops, Jul 07, 2008 04:36PM
To: criollit
Perhaps you should not let him go to this house anymore , children do not do this spontaneusly ,it is learned behavior , and someone is teaching him it.As it started at the sleepovers I suggest it has come from there No sleepovers for a while but dont make it a punishment.,he didnt do anything, but obviously the parents at the other house either are not observant or are allowing it.Keep him home at nights.
by criollitacubana30, Jul 07, 2008 06:59PM
To: margypops
Thanks for the advice, for sure we will not have any sleepovers not because its a punishment, just for the fact that it is better we stay observant and make sure these things dont happen again. Nobody watches your kids like yourself so i think this is the method we are going to use. Our family and theirs got together to talk about it and we came to the conclusion of no more sleepovers or playing outside alone or without supervision at all times.
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