a child not acting herself

hi i have a 12 year old daughtar who never acts like a normal 12 year old usually at this age they would would be into boys and going into the make-up stage shes almost 13 and she still thinks boys are "ickey" she doesn't really understand make-up her speech is delayed and if she trys to talk she like starts to studder like shes getting real nervous i know because i have her twin sister who is opisete shes into thinks like a 3 year old would be in school she has trouble learning and is in tutoring for every subject im not sure whats going on but the docters are all saying the same thing that she just needs more space to "grow" but i dont think this is possible... please help!

[19drifter57]

hi Sara, thanks for the note. after reading your post I thought how odd. you see my x fieacee has twin boys and although it dosent sound as if it is at the same degree as your situation with your daughters, but, it turns out that one of the boys has asburgers (no sure of the spelling) it's a very hard to get a dignoses for it, and I'm certinly no Doctor, but thats what it sounds like to me.

best of luck
Mark