agrresiveness and stubborn in my child

[smita2907]

My son is 5 and 1/2 years old.Sometimes he behave in a very strange manner.He become so agressive,stubborn and cry a lot that he didn't listen to anyone .He repeat the same thing again and again like I have to go to school otherwise teacher will give me more Home work etc.Sometimes he cry because of small reasons and went to balcony and tell that I will jump from here,I want to die .He is also very shy in nature.He loves watchng cartoon.He is in class 1st and good in studies except his handwritting.Some times he ran out of the door and said Iam going from the home I will not come back.He is also very fussy in eating .What to do Kindly help me and suggest me the proper way to treat him.I need your help b'caz iam afraid that he will not take a wrong step and he will understand that Iam doing wrong things I have to change myself.Kindly hel me

[specialmom]

It could be anxiety for sure.  Also check out sensory integration disorder as these can be symptoms of this nervous system issue as well.  Good luck.  Your poor son feels terrible inside and needs some help finding out why.  

[jdtm]

I suspect your son is suffering from anxiety.  I might suggest you google the phrase "children and anxiety" or "anxiety disorders in children" or similar words/phrases.  If you feel that the descriptions remind you of your son, then you  need to consult your family doctor.  If your doctor is not able to help you, then ask for a referral to a medical specialist with experience in anxiety issues.  If anxiety is the case, I assure you that your son will not outgrow it nor will it go away.  I wish you the best ....