my 4 year old has grown increasingly aggressive. We moved in October from the west coast where he was a very thoughtful fun caring little boy, With a very sweat disposition. To the east coast where he has become more and more aggressive. He talks of death all the time. He goes from being fine to being very angry in a matter of seconds. He is biting himself when he is board, and today I find out from his teacher that he scratched another child on the face (it was an unprovoked incident.) On another occasion he began punching a little boy in the chests with both hands, the director of the school witnessed this and pulled him aside. My 4 year old then began to yell at the director of his school. I don't know what to do for him. We have taught him to have respect for adult. He is not allowed to watch anything violent on TV, he is not aloud to play guns or even pretend his hand is a gun. We do not allow him to talk to any adult in a rude manner. Are there any books you can recommend that we read? Also do you think its a faze, or should we seak counseling for him?
thank you
nannyme