children touching each other

[cakeluv12]

My daughter (3) and my nephew (5) were found in a closet pulling up there pants. When I confronted my daughter about it (who is pretty honest) she said that her cousin touched her mouth with his penis. My sister and I along with our husbands are at a loss of how to handle the situation. When I re-asked  daughter several times what happended she refused to talk about it anymore...only that they were playing kitty cats. My nephew was caught being given oral pleasure when he was 2 by his 3yr old friend. There's no way that he could remember that and take it out on my daughter right?? We are confused on how to handle the situation b.c we don't think that my  daughter could make up a lie such as "kissing his penis." We have already told them they can not be in the same room together without an adult. We just don't know what to do with our daughter...tell her it's wrong and leave it at that??

[margypops]

It sounds to me like this is coming from the older child and I suggest you supervise and not leave them together alone, it could also be that someone has done this to the nephew so maybe ask your sister to check out who has been alone with her child and what the dynamics are .I doubt if 2year olds know how to perform oral sex it sends a red flag up in my head so be aware something is going on .