my 3 yr old got caught with his finger in his bottom....

[0unkn0wn0]

my mom caught my 3 yr old son in the tub with his finger in his butt. she asked him why he was doing it and he said "bubba show me" this is a nine yr old who was staying at our house with his parents. she then asked if he ever did that to him and he said " yea" like it was no big deal. i confronted the mother of the child but he said he didnt do it. i asked my son the next day if anyone was touching his but and again he said "yeah bubba" "get on top of him in the bed" the boys parents say he wouldnt lie but how can i be sure?

[margypops]

I agree with mammo children do not make up this kind of thing, do not leave him with the child ,it is possible that the 9 year old has had this done to him ...

[mammo]

Listen to YOUR son, he's too young to make this up, and bubba is old enough to lie.  I would not allow the two of them to be alone together any more.  If this continues, and it will, it will scar your son for life. A nine year old will never admit to this and his parents need to look further into his behavior.  Protect your son by keeping them apart, hurt feelings or not!