my daughter

My daughter is 4years old and she is pooping in her panties and pee's a little bit in them. She does great some days and then she falls back,we want to put her in pree school ,but we can't because they have to be fully trained.Thats what we were told.What can we do.

[Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D.]

Continue to encourage her and adopt a positive, reassuring approach whereby you reward her for successful use of the potty. She is not alone in being at the late end of training. She'll accomplish it on her schedule, not on a schedule dictaed by school or any other factor. Be sure of course that she is medically well, including evaluation by her pediatrician to rule out impacted bowels (which can contribute to both enuresis and encopresis)